If you're serious about changing your life, you need to become aware of where you are right now. It's not what you do but what you think that determines your life. Become aware of what you think.
Becoming a Mental Private Investigator
In my article, "What's on Your Mind?" we looked at the Law of the Seed and how it works together with the Law of Attraction. We saw that it is not the life you lead that determines what you think. It is what you think that determines the life you lead. So if you looked at your life and not happy, I suggested should consider changing your mind.
Whenever we want to make a change, we usually try to change what we do. If we want more money, we get another job. If we want a better relationship, we get out of the one we're in. If we want to lose weight, we go on a diet. These changes rarely work. Two jobs might bring in more money, but we become exhausted and sometimes can't even work at all. The next relationship we jump into is just as bad as the one we left. Diets...well, many of us realize they don't work...10 lbs off, 15 lbs back on.
The answer is not in changing what we do but in changing how we think. A proverb states, "For as he thinks within himself, so he is." Again, if you are not satisfied with where you are in life, you will need to make a change. The first step to change is awareness...becoming aware of the root of the problem, your thoughts. Here is a simple (notice I did not say "easy") exercise that you can implement today.
You need to consciously think about what you think about. Let me say that again; you must deliberately think about your own thoughts. No longer just let your mind freely go wherever it wants. You need to keep tabs on it. If you have to, keep a notebook handy and take notes. Think of yourself as a private investigator and follow your thoughts wherever they go and whatever they do. At the end of the day, you should have a very concise report on your "suspect." Now, this is a private exercise so you needn't tell anyone what you are doing. Don't be embarrassed by your thoughts (well, you may need to be but just observe from a neutral perspective.) Don't ignore or be upset about your thoughts; and, at this point, certainly don't try to change them. Remember, you must first become aware of the position you are in before you can devise a plan to redirect yourself into the life of success you desire to have.
Once you understand what is going on in your mind, then and only then can you make effective changes. This is a critical first step so please don't try any way around it. As I said, it is simple but you will not find it easy. Your "suspect" does not want to be found out! When you are ready to move on, you can find some helpful, practical steps to take in my next article: "Mindless No More."
Paula Glasser
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